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From the Paris Review... in relation to grandparenting...

26/2/2018

 
A Poem by Lucy Tunstall: Remembering the Children of First Marriages

www.theparisreview.org/blog/2011/09/01/poem-remembering-the-children-of-first-marriages/

Lucy Tunstall’s poems leaped out at us from the slush pile for their fresh, unfussy takes on
the vagaries of contemporary life; she is one of those poets whose voice already seems
familiar. “Remembering the Children of First Marriages” invokes the structured repetition
and close observation that make Christopher Smart’s “Jubilate Agno” (“For I will consider
my Cat Jeoffrey”) so extraordinary; here, Tunstall, a British poet, turns her gaze not to a
winsome cat, but to children of divorce, as if they, too, could be held up to the light and
anatomized. An irony, of course, is that there is nothing singular about children of divorce.
—Meghan O’Rourke

REMEMBERING THE CHILDREN OF FIRST MARRIAGES

Oh remember the children of first marriages
For they are silent and awkward in their comings and their goings;
For the seal of the misbegotten is upon them;
For they walk in apology and dis-ease;
For their star is sunk;
For their fathers’ brows are knitted against them;
For they bristle and snarl.
All you light-limbed amblers in the sun,
Remember the grovellers in the dark;
The scene-shifters, the biders, the loners.
​
Lucy Tunstall is a doctoral student at the University of Exeter.

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    'Our Stories'

    About  'As Time Goes By' - Memoir Writing

    'As Time Goes By' provides an outlet and support for members keen to write about their lives and  tell stories their families may not get around to asking them about.   A memoir is a slice from a person’s life which focuses on a particular theme or lesson or flavor of experience, an aspect of life that is most unusual or fascinating.   Each month class members reminisce, write about and share memorable ‘slices’ from their lives in response to set ‘500 Words’ themed writing topics.  

    Please note - The course does not cover writing a detailed, chronological autobiography.

    Convenor & Contact details

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    Beverley Lee
    5762 8171

    Meeting Times

    4th Monday 2 - 4 pm
    ​U3A Meeting Room - or during Covid-19, this is the time to emailed stories to Bev to be shared online.
    ***As Time Goes By - 
    Topics for 2022
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    Memoir Review - Framework for Analysis
    Master list of  500 word story topics from 2015 to end of 2020
    As Time Goes By - Topics for 2021
    The Memoir Writing Club - Online Courses

    2021 Collection

    'Found' 
    'Triggers' 
    ​'This (...) Life'
    'If Only I ...'
    'Right Here, Right Now'
    'Crash'
    ​'Stock and Land'
    'Cringe'
    'A Childhood Memory'
    ​'Curved Ball'

    'The Year that Made Me'
    'Someone who Shaped Me'
    'A Memoir' 
    'Anzac Day' 2020/2021
    'One Moment, This Year' (2020)
    ​'A Love Letter to Travel'
    ​'Too Hard Basket'
    'New in Town'

    'In Isolation' Collection 2020

    March: Making Waves
    April:  Winging It/Taking the Plunge
    May:  Anzac Day or Turning Point 
    June:  'I grew up in...'

    July:  'Car Stories' and 'Ideas Piggy Bank'  
    August:  'Right Here, Right Now'
    September 'Out of the Blue'
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    October 'This Life'
    November 'Triggers'
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    December 'One Moment, This Year' - (2020) (due in Feb)

    Past topics 

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    2018 Topic List
    '23 Words'
    'A Friendship Tested' //
    'A Love Letter To Travel'
    'A Turning Point'
    Australian Writers Centre
    'Car Stories' //
    'Easter'
    'Experiences Of The Unexplained'
    'Fish Out Of Water'
    'For Better For Worse' //
    'Good Vibrations'
    'Grandparents' //
    'Heartbreak'
    'I Broke It'
    'Ideas Piggy Bank'
    'If Only'
    'I Quit!' //
    Life Matters 'Life In 500 Words'
    'Lost And Found' //
    Making Comments
    'Making Waves'
    'My Other Life'
    'One Moment
    'Stand Up Comedy'
    This Year'
    'What Happened In Vegas'

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