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'This (Grand Final Winning) Life' - Heather Wallace

16/10/2023

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In late September I relived one of the happiest days of my life, but this time through the eyes of number of my family members.     To share their experience on this day was such a joy.
 
On September 30 six members of my family made their way to the MCG for the AFL Grand Final, all of them Collingwood members.  It was their first Grand Final!   All were Gold Pass members for the Club, so they were assured of a seat for the game.   My Granddaughter had flown down from the Gold Coast just to attend the game.
 
In 1966, I too attended a Grand Final, supporting my team who won by a point.   Good old St. Kilda.     I too was a Gold Pass member of the Club, but I had to line up at the Moorabbin Ground during the day and overnight on the Tuesday prior to the match for my seating tickets to the match. It was a good night with lots of theme-song singing, partaking of food and hot drinks and lots of fun and laughter.
 
In 2023 my family went to the game by train, whilst in 1966 I made my way to the MCG in my little Morris Minor early on Saturday morning.  I lined up at the gates and spent the day watching the Grand Finals of the Under 19’s, then the Reserves before, at 2.15pm, the siren blew for the AFL Senior team to commence the match.    Those days the only entertainment was a full day of football, not like the entertainment that is now provided.
 
It was an exciting game in 1966 and it was an exciting game in 2023.    In the week prior I had asked my family who attended the match to enjoy every minute of the day as they were going to experience an excitement that only winning fans feel, right down to the last siren sound on the day.   I relived my day at the 1966 grand final every minute of this year’s match.
 
In 1966 we won by a point.   When that point was kicked, the siren sounded and for a split second there was complete silence in the stadium, the crowd then realising that St. Kilda had won was followed by this ‘almighty roar’.    I have never experienced anything like this in the years that followed.
 
After the siren this year I was sent video of my son and his family taken when the siren sounded. The smiles and tears brought back memories of how I felt.
 
My family went from venue to venue on the Saturday night to hold onto the joy they felt.   They went home for a short while and then attended the family day at Collingwood, whereas in 1966 I drove to Nepean Highway in East Brighton to Sierakowski’s pub.  The Licensee, the father of Kev Sierakowski, served free drinks for two hours.  Driving on to the Moorabbin Football Ground, I stayed the whole night – meeting the players when they returned to the Clubrooms;  eating and drinking till all hours;   (my car was bogged and I had many helpers getting it out);   sleeping in said car for a couple of hours;  then meeting up with my parents and brothers late on Sunday morning when they arrived for the Club’s Family Day.  I was still wearing the clothes I left home in!
 
I was so pleased I could relive my Grand Final experience 58 years later through my family’s experience.  It was so special.
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My granddaughter Brooke, from the Gold Coast,
​with her brother Callum and Roxy.
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My son, two grandsons, granddaughter and daughter-in-law and two
friends ​after the match.

Heather Wallace
​October 2023
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'This (Fortunate) Life' - Barry O'Connor

16/10/2023

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​I have been fortunate to have grown up and lived in small rural communities for over 55 years of my life thus far. The early experiences in small communities shaped my broader attitude to life and fellow community members.  Whilst I did leave the smaller communities for the ‘big smoke’ to further my career ambitions, I have always kept in mind the community spirit and self-help co-operation that exists in the ‘bush’.

My father was a master builder, and whilst I had a very early grounding in the building industry, the corporate world paid a lot better, and there was no capital outlay. I have successfully managed multi-million dollar divisions of large international corporations.

Many of my management roles required me to restructure the organisation to return it to a profitable operation. This almost certainly required change management, in which over the years, I became very experienced. I always took the ‘carrot’ approach rather than the ‘stick’. Change management requires that you incentivise staff in order for the desired result to be achieved, and maintained.  These incentives may be a simple, “Thank you, great job”, or a more mercenary incentive of tangible rewards. In any case, all staff must feel like they are contributing equally to a better workplace environment.

In the years since my ‘retirement’ I have been able to inject some of this experience and expertise as, and when, required. Country people don’t appreciate those who go around boasting about their achievements, and I have been well aware of that. I tend to maintain a low profile until I see a situation progressing into an area that may cause some adverse consequences for the organisation, or the broader community. This is where I will generally make a quiet suggestion to key decision makers of the community, to consider what the consequences may be if they do not ensure that the benefits will flow to the broader membership, not just a few selfish, self-centred individuals.

On 1st January 2012 the whole structure of regulations surrounding community organisations changed.  The new Government regulations placed volunteers under the same regulations and work place requirements as paid employees, or workers as they were described in the legislative changes. One of the hardest aspects of this change was to have the mind set of longer term community volunteers accept the new regulations. I have however, been reasonably successful in bringing about change, which will serve our community organisations into the future. One of these organisations was the Country Fire Authority.

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Barry O’Connor.
2nd October 2023
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'This (Diamond) Life', by Lou Sigmund

16/10/2023

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While looking for a gift for my 16-year-old grand-daughter in a jewellery store, I saw a diamond that brought back memories.

In 2002 I had an office at the Spring Street end of Collins Street, Melbourne, where all the expensive and upmarket stores were situated.  On my daily walks I would sometimes see a family who appeared to be of Arabian descent – husband walking out front, followed by his many wives and children, all carrying shopping bags.

I was to meet this man under very different circumstances. 

My secretary rang to ask if I could see a man on short notice as he had to fly out to Dubai that day.  I said “Yes, send him in”. 

In swooshed an Arabian dressed gentleman who bowed and introduced himself as Prince Abdul El Bili*, seventh son of Sheik Hammud El Farah Bili* of Dubai.  We shook hands, western style.

In his left-hand Prince Abdul held a small suitcase bound in crocodile skin and gold edging, about the size of a large cigar box.  After polite conversation and enquiries about my health, I asked if I had seen him walking down Collins Street with his family.  He smiled and said, “Having three wives who love to shop has its problems”.  I said, “I have similar a problem, but I only have one wife”.  We both laughed.

I politely asked how I could help him.  He said he and his brothers were in Australia, interested in buying businesses.  They had just returned from Western Australia.

“What type of industries are you interested in?”

Prince Abdul laid the beautiful box on the table and opened the combination locks.

To my total amazement, it was full of diamonds, Argyle Diamonds.  There were large stones, many small stones, glittering purple as he poured them onto the table. 

I reached for the phone and asked my wife, who was also my business partner, to join us.  I wanted a witness to this astonishing event.

My wife walked in, her eyes widening as she saw what was on the table.  After introducing her to the prince, my wife, in a very squeaky voice, asked me “Are we going to buy them?”  I did not answer.

I asked the prince what he wanted to do with the gems.  He said that they were for sale and that he had been told I might be interested. 

​I explained that I was not a diamond merchant but could give him phone numbers of people to call who may be able to help him.
 
I asked the prince what he thought the stones were valued at and what his asking price was.  He said he thought around $7,000,000 – but that was just a rough guess, he was looking for someone to value them properly.

My wife picked up two of the largest stones and in a trembling voice asked me “Could we not have just two?” 

The prince arose, packing the diamonds in their case.  He thanked me for my time, saying that he would come to see me on his next trip, and he did.

I have seen the prince many times since.  We became business partners and firm friends.  We spent many happy hours with his family when they were in Australia.

 
Lou Sigmund
October 2023
 
*Not their real names

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**Feeling nostalgic...? Finding it hard these days to stroll leisurely along Collins Street?  Check out https://thecuriousreport.com/collins-street/
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    'This (...) Life'

    "This (....) Life".  The brief?  " Submit a 500 word story of own choice, a story important to you, a story you have often wanted to write about.  After writing the story, develop a title for it using the title 'This (......) Life".  It might be something like, "This (inspiring) Life", "This (entitled) Life", "This (serendipitous) Life" or ‘This (downsizing) Life’,  A recent story in the Australian* was titled - ‘This (Number 8) Life’ - a story about growing up as ‘Number 8’ in a family of nine children.'

    'This (...) Life' has been the topic for October since 2020 when the Pandemic caused the demise of the Benalla Festival's Writing Competition.

    *The topic 'This (...) Life' draws on the concept behind the Weekend Australian's column which publishes stories submitted by readers.

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