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'A Memoir Which Has Meant Something to Me'

27/4/2021

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The Road from Coorain by Jill Ker Conway was a memoir I first read about ten years ago. In many ways it has no relevance to my life, however I loved it. This could best be described of a memoir of an Australian childhood.
 
The first part of the book is set in the western plains of New South Wales where Jill spent the first ten years of her life. Her home was Coorain – a local Aboriginal name meaning “Windy”.
Her parents moved there in 1930 after her father William Ker had built a house on a block of 18,000 acres. There was a severe drought and the onset of the Great Depresssion  which made the start of such a venture extremely difficult. By dint of hard work and perseverance the family managed to build a successful sheep property.  Jill was born there just as the family's fortunes improved. She with two older brothers then spent a few idyllic years in this isolated area.
 
In 1940 the elder boy was sent to boarding school in Sydney, 500 miles away. He tried to run away on several occasions so the parents sent the younger brother to the same school the following year.

Jill was now alone with her parents and, as World War 2 had led to a lack of station hands, she became her father's right hand “man”, spending most days riding with him and helping him with all the work required. She vividly describes the vast isolation but beautiful landscape. Her description of the dust storms are so vivid I felt as if I could taste the grit.
 
This early part of her life bears no resemblance to mine but after her father's death and the family moving to Sydney I could relate to many of her experiences. Her description of the school she attended sounded very similar to my experience, particularly when I became a boarder. There we wore hats, gloves and blazers and just reading her description brought back many memories.

Our attendance at University could not be compared as she was responsible for her mother who had become depressed and dependent on her children, particularly after the death of the older brother Robert in a car accident. My life at university was free of responsibility for anyone but myself.

On my first reading of this memoir I was captivated by the resilience and sense of duty displayed by Jill and had very little sympathy for her mother. However on this latest reading, I developed a respect for this woman as it seemed to me she was a victim of her gender. I can remember my own mother saying once how she envied me and my sisters-in-law as we all had our own careers.

How lucky am I that I was born into a family that valued education for all members regardless of gender. Also, although still victims of the gender pay gap, most women have the chance to have a career.


Marg McCrohan
​April 2021


 
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'Grandparents'

22/4/2021

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​The only two grandparents who played a role in my life were my paternal grandfather and my maternal grandmother.  

Patrick Aloysius Ryan, born in April 1888 and died in November 1968, married three times. His first wife died after the birth of their second son, my uncle, in 1916. He married his second wife in 1919 and she died in 1953. Everyone talks very fondly of her but I have no memory of her at all. His third wife was English.  They married in England and returned to Australia to live.

Patrick was an old fashioned gentleman who believed in the adage - "Children should be seen and not heard',   Although he was kind to us there was a lack of warmth.

My major memory of Patrick was being lectured on the fact that I had taken too long to write a “Thank you” note acknowledging a birthday or Christmas gift. I then tried backdating my letters so it might look as if they had been delayed in the mail, but he used to check the post mark!!

My maternal grandmother, Ilsa Moore, was my ideal grandparent. She loved all twenty one of her grandchildren and was determined that we should all experience every facet of life possible. Ilsa was feisty and interested in all our lives. When my parents moved to PNG and we were at boarding school she was our  escape, and was always planning treats from afternoon tea at the Windsor Hotel to a day at the cricket. She also organised tickets for several of us to go to the Beatles concert when they came out.  Above all she was there, full of encouragement and love.

One of Ilsa's wishes was to have a red headed child.  She went so far as to dye my mother's hair - not a very successful venture I believe. The ironic thing is my youngest boy has red hair, as has one of his cousins, but unfortunately they were born after she died in 1973,

I still miss her.


Marg McCrohan
April 2021

(This story, completed by Marg for Family Research, began as a topic in As Time Goes By, so has been added to Marg's collection of stories.)
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