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'Lost and Found'    A long ten minutes!

24/7/2015

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8.00 am to 8.10 am - Wednesday 17th June 2015  

I went to the key rack and realized the key on the little Spaceman key ring was missing. Panic set in!  It was the key to the neighbour’s house and there was a hungry cat called Myrtle waiting to be fed.

Our neighbours Geoff and Wendy often take holidays, either overseas or skiing the Australian Alps.  Over the years a few of their pets have needed care at these times. One memorable pet was Wendy’s sister’s dog, an ageing kelpie which had to be put down because it insisted on biting Wendy after its owner died.  There were usually two caged birds, some variety of canary. 

Recently Geoff asked me if I would look after the current list of pets –  Myrtle the cat and some birds - while he and Wendy took a trip to Far North Queensland.

The travelling arrangements were for Wendy and Geoff to fly to Cairns, take possession of a four wheeled drive and rendezvous with other people of the same age from our town. The touring party included a medical doctor, registered nurse, midwife and a motor mechanic/ steel fabricator and others.  Once the group had familiarized themselves with the tasks ahead they were to set off inland heading for the Carnarvon National Park.   Their ultimate aim, to reach the tip of Cape York.

I did not anticipate seeing them for six weeks. 

Three weeks into Geoff and Wendy’s holiday I had set into a routine of feeding animals, collecting the mail, putting out the red and yellow bins full of rubbish accumulated before they went away and watering specific plants.

Wednesday morning came around.  After I had done the chores I headed over to the key rack to get the key so that I could feed Myrtle.   Catastrophe struck.  To my astonishment the key with the Spaceman key ring was not on its hook! 

The hunt was on!  Thoughts rushed through my head…  

If I cannot find the key in the next three minutes I will have some explaining to do!  Where did I last see it?   Did I do something with it after I fed Myrtle last night?  What was I wearing?

Frantically I checked behind the refrigerator as the key rack is next to the kitchen fridge.

How am I going to feed the hungry Myrtle? What if Myrtle is trapped in Geoff and Wendy’s house and dies for lack of food? What will the smell be like? What will the neighbours think if I can’t look after a cat and a couple of birds? There would be no hope of being asked to do anything in future that carries any responsibility!

My partner arrived back from her early morning walk and asked all of the appropriate questions regarding the key.  She asked what I wore last time I used the key.  I looked in the jacket from the day before but no key.

Then we remembered!  It started to become clear.   On Wednesday it had rained, so I did not wear my normal jacket but a rain coat.  There it was in front of me in the hall cupboard. By  8.10 am I had the Spaceman key ring in my hand.

Ten minutes later Myrtle was fed and I felt greatly relieved!

              

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I Quit... Football!

17/7/2015

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The decision to quit often depends on the rapport  built up with others.  In football this obligation to perform is between the player or employee and the principal, usually the coach. 

Football and the football coaches I came across when playing football have been an important part of my life.  Mr. Frank at my high school was my first coach,  followed by people my own age - Jeffrey, Lennie & Des.

Jeffrey  was an excellent speaker except when we were behind at three quarter time in some crucial game.   His vocabulary could then become a demeaning and offensive tirade of abuse. One of the Macartney brothers decided Jeffrey was such a good speaker that he would “tape” one of his three quarter time speeches to replay to his mother over tea but decided it was too offensive!   Jeffrey, a school teacher, later became an Education Advisor.

Lennie, an electricity meter reader based in Ballarat, was also a good speaker but had the unhappy knack of belittling out of form players on the off chance they would improve their performance.  I often quote Lennie as he was a great running coach having trained many Stawell Gift winners.  He trained sprinters at the Lake Oval during the summer months, entering his fastest runner in the appropriate Gift meetings.  During this period Lennie would build up a rapport with the sprinters he trained to the point where they would not think of quitting.

I was not all that keen on playing football in the late 1980’s.   I had been successful at coaching a school football team and was looking forward to quietly fading into the dark as far as football was concerned.   However Des, a fellow employee, coached Wallan football team which was short of suitable players.  Des ‘bailed’ me up and asked me to play for Wallan.  I felt I couldn’t say no as doing so would affect our relationship.

The last game I played, the one that convinced me that this would be my last, was brought on by appalling weather conditions at Wallan.  The ground faced south and was exposed to the oncoming weather. 

I can remember vividly thinking, “Why put up with these conditions Saturday after Saturday when I could be at home with my wonderful wife Carole - who was always encouraging me with sporting pursuits - and our two delightful children, Luke and Marion?”   

I can still remember the moment when it struck me, staring down at the sodden ground ‘on the wing’, to ask “Why am I here?”

It wasn’t the fact that we were unsuccessful as a team.  We had won the premiership the previous year in a hard fought battle against Sebastopol.

The writing was on the wall to my inner self however as I told myself I QUIT!

Quitting or resigning is a newsworthy occurrence in today’s football where many “good” options are available.   Lance Franklin from the Sydney Swans must have filtered these options when deciding to leave Hawthorn (reigning Premiers) to take the $9,000,000 offered by Sydney over a ten year period.

Mine was just that cold wind and sodden ground.

 

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