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April - a '...fearless, frequently humorous and often meandering' discussion group & a further consideration of family violence

28/4/2021

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On 6 April we enjoyed fearless, frequently humorous, and often meandering group discussions at Cooinda.
 
The previous evening ABC TV had aired “Brazen Hussies” - a 2020 Australian documentary recording the history of the Women's Liberation Movement in Australia from 1965 to 1975. This era, seared in the memories of so many, formed the foundation of the morning’s discussion. We covered the impact of the pill, the role of religion, the role of Women’s Weekly magazine, raising girls as future wives, access to education, gender-based wages, the right to employment when married or pregnant, the definition and aims of feminism, 6 o’clock closing, and so much more.
 
(View Brazen Hussies at https://vimeo.com/ondemand/brazenhussies)
 
The impact of Germaine Greer’s 1970 “Female Eunuch” and 2019 Jane Caro’s 2019 reflections and commentary in “Accidental Feminist” as authors who “put words to our experiences” was also included. 
 
In the context of how difficult it was for many women to get an education Andi introduced us to Elizabeth Gaskell’s character “My Lady Ludlow”. The novel was printed in a women’s magazine called Household Words in 1858.  Lady Ludlow described education as “a bad thing, if given indiscriminately” (Ref: Wikipedia, https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Lady_Ludlow). The full text is available online at Project Gutenburg - https://www.gutenberg.org/files/2524/2524-h/2524-h.htm
 
It’s said that discussing either football, religion or politics is a surefire way to destroy barbecue bonhomie.  Experience tells me that combining all three of these national “holy grails” into a single barbeque does not compare to the historical and current angst often attached to the social movement called feminism.
 
On 16 April we concluded the session on Family Violence. I’m disheartened by recent tragedies and with the continual escalation of Family Violence. Never look away. Call 1800respect/1800 737732.
 
Bringing this month’s report to a gentle close, we thank Andi again for telling us about this, a mother’s sage entry in her child’s autograph book (remember those?).
 
“If wisdom’s ways you wisely seek,
Five things observe with care,
To whom you speak,
Of whom you speak,
And how, and when, and where.”
― Caroline Lake Ingalls (mother of Laura Ingalls Wilder, and recorded in "Little House on the Prairie")
 
May sessions:
  1. Discussion Group: Tuesday 4th May 2021 10 – 12 noon @ Cooinda
  2. Course Content: Friday 21 May 2021 1 – 3pm @ Benalla Seniors Building Fawkner St.


Jane 
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Rich and varied discussions continue,  including increasing our understanding of family violence ...

1/4/2021

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​Rich and varied discussions continue. We have discovered the group has a handy cross section of preferred coping styles. Each of the “types” - eagle, owl, dove, and peacock – are evenly spread amongst us. We discussed how to make the most of these preferred coping styles in various settings such as work, home, and committees. You might hear family or friends comment about an “owl moment” or the need for a “peacock” for a particular task.
 
Ever the thinker, Mary Bridgland pondered on “coping styles”, especially the “How” of the development of our preferred coping styles, resulting in a wonderful presentation by Mary and discussions on the “Influences on Coping Style”. Mary began with this curiously ambiguous picture. What do you see? https://www.illusionsindex.org/i/young-woman-or-old-woman
 
Mary continued to describe the dual impacts of our sense of self and well-being and external influences on our preferred coping styles. Go to Mary’s Powerpoint below for more “How”.
The content focus into April is a gentle consideration of the disturbing facts of family violence (FV).  The aim of Demystifying Psychology (a lighthearted look at psychology) has been temporarily abandoned in favor of increasing our understanding of the characteristics of FV and how we might help someone we suspect is experiencing FV. In Australia 1:4 women and 1:13 men reported experiencing intimate partner violence. So, the chances are high that you know someone who has experienced/is experiencing family violence.
(Source: http://dvvic.org.au/understand/about-family-violence/).
 
Topics covered in March and April will include:
  • Types of abuse in families.
  • Patterns of control.
  • Perpetrator psychology.
  • Perpetrator presentation.
  • Cycle of abuse.
  • What to do when you suspect abuse.
 
To begin, we did an activity I hope you will also do. On your phone, tablet, laptop, or desktop -
  1. Type 1800RESPECT into your search bar.
  2. Choose https://www.1800respect.org.au/
  3. Scroll down to “Supporting someone”.
  4. Scroll back to the top of the page.
  5. Click on the word EXIT on the upper right of the page. What just happened? This is a quick safety option now used on many FV support websites.
  6. Check your browsing history. Did this site show up?
  7. Finally, click the left return arrow found next to your web address bar. What happened?
  The powerpoint for the first session on Family Violence follows: 
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​Thank you for participating and for “not looking away”.

Jane Rushworth

COMING in Demystifying Psychology meetings:
  1. Discussion Group (face to face) at Cooinda 10-12 noon on Tuesday 6 April (third Tuesday of the month).
  2. Content Group (face to face) at Benalla Seniors Building 1-3pm Friday 16 April (third Friday of the month)
 
Call
1800 737732
1800RESPECT
National sexual assault, domestic family violence COUNSELLING service.
  • NRS: 1800 555 677
  • Interpreter 13 14 50
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    Demystifying Psychology

    Demystifying Psychology is formally returning to the timetable in 2023. 

    The Demystifying Psychology Discussion Group comprising members from previous classes which has been meeting at the Northo is now listed on the U3A Timetable.

    "An open discussion group with a psychological focus looking at current events.  If you are interested in various interpretations of relationships of all kinds, you are welcome and can expect to have fun.  No preparation needed."

    You can download the Introductory Power Point here.

    3rd Thursday from 2 - 4 pm
    ​The North Eastern Hotel

    Convenor and Contact Details

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    Jane Rushworth 
    0437 621 575
    ​The 'Demystifying Psychology' five session course will be offered again in Semester Two at times to be confirmed. 

    "A five-session light-hearted course introducing psychology in everyday life and some of the theories that attempt to explain how and why we do things.  The course will include personality types and preferred coping styles; theories and practices applied to drug treatment, raising children, family violence, and other topics as suggested by participants. The course will also include social psychology, the concepts of obedience, power, group dynamics and states of mind.  We'll then discuss how we experience the various theories as they play out in daily life."

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