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A love letter to travel - 'Bali'

6/12/2020

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​Many moons ago I was working and managing a home and three children and hubby. In conjunction with work I was doing a course on cardiac technology and the mid term exam was coming up. I needed to do some cramming. I was the oldest in the class and wanted to do well. I discussed a destination with the travel agent I had dashed in to in my lunch hour.  I asked her to find a place where it was warmer (It was mid June), not too far away, where I could be on my own, but not necessarily lonely. The agent came up with Bali.  Bali!!  I said to myself. “Who wants to go to Bali?” I had heard it was not safe to drink the water, but she had filled my brief, so I signed up.

​On arrival in Bali the airport terminus was not much more than a farm shed. As I walked across the tarmac a small bright green snake crossed in front of me. “Welcome to Bali”. I thought…….I hate snakes! On arrival it was hot and humid and at the accommodation while we were waiting for room allocation we were offered an enticing looking tropical drink. My brain said yes, but I had been told to not even clean your teeth in the tap water, so reluctantly declined. I knew from a previous trip to Asia that wine was not readily available so had taken a cellar pack with me. They had not long been available at home. I looked around for a fridge to cool it in, but none was available. There was an air-con on the wall above the wardrobe, so that was where I positioned the cask.

Next morning I went to breakfast and was feeling down, wondering what the heck I was doing there on my own. Sitting alone I gave myself a good talking too and decided to venture out. I cashed a traveller’s cheque to the local Rupiah and stepped outside to do some exploring.

​As I stood there, a long line of mostly women Balinese in local costume walked past in a single line toward the beach. On their heads they bore a tray on which an elaborate decoration of fruits, coloured rice cakes in the shape of a cone was balanced.. A splayed cooked chicken artistically trimmed with bamboo shoots was the centrepiece.  I fell in behind and followed them to the beach where they all sat on the sand. A woman dressed in white chanted, tinkled a tiny brass bell and sprinkled water about. I was fascinated, and wanted to take a photo. I knew from reading about their customs that one should not have your head higher than that of the head man of the village. As the Balinese are not a tall race I moved about on my knees. I later discovered that I had just attended a funeral!!
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This artful arrangement becomes offerings at the temple where the food is shared.
When the ceremony had finished I headed off to find the bus to take me to the capital Denpasar. The main road through Kuta beach that parallels the beach was also the bus route. The problem was I did not know whether to take the bus that went right or the bus that went left.  I noticed the police station nearby, so went in to ask directions. The officers found it strange that I was a woman with a family and was there on my own. They wanted to see photos of the children and generally were on for a chat. Eventually they told me which way to go. The bus that pulled up was about the size of a VW combie with a row of seats each side of a centre aisle. The seats were occupied and all were locals. Some held wicker cages containing live poultry. They kindly shuffled along to make room for me to sit. I tried to say my rear end was too large, but gave up as they insisted I sit.  I did so, precariously balancing on the edge, knee to knee with the person opposite.

I wandered around Denpasar exploring. Every where I went the Balinese said a cheery "Hello" and were friendly. It was pretty grotty though, with mangy dogs, chooks and the occasional pig roaming around. I was feeling a bit jaded and thought I would make my way to the Bali Beach Hilton Hotel, which at the time was the only hotel on the island and was right on the waterfront.. While eating lunch an Aussie couple who had been on the same flight at me the day before came over to chat. They told me that they had walked from Kuta, so I decided that I would walk back to the Beach Club where I was staying,

I gathered my things and headed off along the beach. I walked for about half an hour and came to a small creek which emanated from a group of mangroves. I hitched my dress above the water. line and waded across. I could hear the thonk, thonk from my thongs as they moved in the mud. The thought went through my mind, “I hope they do not have crocodiles in Bali”. Continuing on for a short while, it finally dawned on me that I had not seen anyone for some time and that following along the beach was a no go. What to do now?  The penny dropped that the Aussies at the hotel had not walked there along the beach, I had just presumed that was the case!

I thought I would just have to retrace my steps, but in the meanwhile would sit and have a cigarette. As I was enjoying my nicotine fix, I watched an out rigger canoe and was musing how quaint it was, till it started to head straight for me. That set me wondering again, this time do they have pirates in Bali?? Two men got out of the canoe and came up to me. I could see a palm fringed small island with huts not far off and seeing it was the nearest thing to civilisation I had seen for a while I asked them to take me there. They agreed. I sat in the middle of the canoe with a Balinese in front and one in the rear. It was narrow and near the water line, so I dangled a foot over each side and ducked each time they tacked to miss the oscillating boom as it moved across. The Balinese thought that was a great joke and eventually so did I.

We had arrived at a small island village where they hunted turtles for a living. It was known as Serengan or “Turtle Island”. A group of youngsters, many of whom spoke English, took me to the village to show me the turtles. There was a fairly large muddy pool seething with fairly large turtles. A tiny boy waded in, stood behind a large turtle and grabbed the front of the turtle’s shell, which he pulled upward. The poor thing was belly up with legs flailing. They were trying to encourage me to hold it while they took a photo, but I gently declined while I took a photo of them. 
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The children of Seregan village who showed me around.
The children showed me their tiny school hut and generally were happy and delightful. They showed me how they killed the turtles which I wished I had never seen. They placed the turtles on their backs on a large stump of wood. They then slashed their throats and let them bleed to death. Made me feel really sad for the turtle.

I began to realise I needed to make it back to the mainland, but how? I asked the children to find me someone who could take me there. After a short while they came back with two girls and one boy who were willing make the trip after asking “How much you pay”? I said, “You take me, then I show how much I pay”? Thankfully they agreed and off we went.  As we made it to the beach it was amid a mangrove swamp and the wind had dropped. The children then punted me the rest of the way along the inlet till we came to a dead end. I alighted and gave the kids enough money to satisfy them and off they went.   
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My "crew" and transport to civilisation. 
There was no habitation around, just mangrove bushes and one local Bemo, which is a local second class taxi where the passenger travelled in the tray at the back of the driver’s cabin. I asked how much to take me to Kuta.  Much bartering went on till we arrived at an agreement and off we went.

​It had been a very interesting day.

On arrival safely at my accommodation I questioned the amount of Rupees to the dollar and was embarrassed to find I had bartered quite a bit of to and fro over the amount equivalent to 20 cents!!

I came to love Bali and it’s gentle people. I've returned several times and seen it grow from the small fishing village I first encountered to a holiday island with large hotels and lots of traffic. Although it is now very “touristy” in many places, the people are still wonderful and the real Bali is still there if you look for it.

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Claire Rudolph
​November 2020
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'Right Here, Right Now'

27/8/2020

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​.This continued isolation for Covid 19 is doing my head in right here, right now!!!!!!!!!

At times I have been talking to the walls. Any day now I swear they will answer and I will know then that I have really lost it.

Living alone with these restrictions is not for sissies and requires dedication Prior stage 3 lock-down I had no great problems with the restrictions. My project was to paint the inside of the house and that certainly helped fill in the time.

Immediately after that I found myself in hospital for 3 weeks and on arrival home found myself with little energy and even less motivation. That was when the rot started to set in. I thought jail might be an easier alternative. No housework, no shopping, no gardening and best of all no cooking!

After getting our of bed on one occasion I thought to myself “Why should I make the bed? No one sees it but me”. So I didn’t make it. I also figured with no likely visitors I could swan around for the rest of the day in my PJ’s ……...so I did. Next day I gave myself a really good talking to. I realised it would be really easy so slip into lassitude and daily monotony.

I asked a friend around for Devonshire Tea on a Saturday afternoon. The sun was shining and we enjoyed a good chat soaking up it’s rays. The sun really does lift the spirits even if the air is chilly. I also organised a Trivia night on Zoom for the Gliding Club. That was the most people I have conversed with in one sitting. It was therapeutic to enjoy the company of others even if contact was via a tiny photo on screen. It was great to have a laugh.

I now set myself a target of some sort for the day to give myself a sense of purpose. It may be something simple such as clean the fridge or tidy that cupboard. I find reaching those little goals allows me to feel happier in myself.

Like us all I miss family contact and hugs………..I really miss my hugs…………

​The fact that we know there is light at the end of the tunnel is a time to work toward.

The walls and I can’t wait

Claire Rudolph
August 2020
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'Turning Point'

28/6/2020

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​A turning point in my life was coming to live in Benalla.  Here is what made that happen.
 
Our friends Marg and Don Hauser were glider pilots who regularly came to Benalla to fly. On occasion they asked me to join them for the weekend, awakening my interest in the sport of gliding.
 
Working a full-time job and with three still dependent children, the time and money involved to make flying a reality led to it being put on the back burner.
 
One Saturday afternoon some years later, when the children were older, I was standing doing dishes at the kitchen sink. As I looked up, I saw a small plane fly overhead. On that day, our children were off with friends, one on a sleep over and the other two involved in a weekend with scouts and cubs. Karl was at lawn bowls. The thought suddenly hit me, “Why am keeping the home fires burning, when there is just me in it?  
 
When Christmas time came around, Karl asked me what I would like for Christmas. In answer, I formulated a list, on top of which was an emerald and diamond dress ring, and on the bottom, a new potato peeler.  Somewhere near the middle, I slotted in a week in  Benalla to learn how to fly. I got the potato peeler and not the ring. However, I did find myself in Benalla learning how to fly.
 
Gliding is a sport where males and females are able to compete on an even footing. Muscle power is of no consequence. Karl was from the country town of Tongala in the Goulburn Valley. We would often visit Tongala, however I found the small town claustrophobic.  I made it clear that I could never move to live in the country.
 
Eventually the children left home. Karl had semi-retired from teaching and I was still full time employed.
 
One Friday afternoon I came home and Karl said, ”How would you feel if we sold this house and built one in Benalla?” 
 
I thought for a minute. I had come to have a feeling for Benalla from my exposure to the gliding club.  Our eldest son Stuart, his wife and their two children were living in Yackandah, so we would be able to see them more often. It also meant I could have more access to my glider and flying.  All positives.  I also realised that the weather is better In Benalla, with more sunshine than Melbourne. 
 
To Karl’s surprise I agreed.  With that, he was on the phone to an estate agent who arrived a very short time later to talk about putting our home on the market.  The following day we drove to Benalla and looked around for a block of land. On Monday, when I came home from work, I found our house had been sold that day, so the die was cast for us to become Benalla residents.
 
It was the best move we ever made. We made friends and slotted into the local scene effortlessly.
 
The gliding club at Benalla is known throughout the gliding world as a premier soaring club. The conditions attract overseas pilots who want to fly in the northern winter and attain long flights in the excellent thermal conditions that this part of Australia provides.  Over the years we made many, many friends from England, Scotland, Finland, Canada, Wales and New Zealand. I have flown in England, Scotland, New Zealand and Slovenia and Hawaii. We have been able to offer accommodation to some of these pilots, especially those that bring their spouse. They have become lifelong friends.  We have been fortunate enough to have several overseas holidays staying with these wonderful people. Often, we were handed from household to household, moving from the south of England on up to the Lakes District, then Glasgow.  Staying with locals was a wonderful way to see more of England in particular.
 
I am eternally grateful to have moved to this friendly town. A turning point in our lives that worked out well for my family.
 
 
Claire Rudolph
June 2020
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How we met - 'How I met Karl'

27/6/2020

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I was working as a second year trainee nurse at the Alfred Hospital in Melbourne and it was approaching Christmas time in 1962. There were six of us living in a “flat” in Punt Road, just up from the then St..Kilda Junction.
 
The flat was a two storied terraced house, since pulled down to eradicate the said junction.  Marge Hauser. Nee.Laing and I shared the front room on the ground floor. The other half of the building was a mirror image of the side  we lived in.  At the time this was a “sly grog shop”. It  was not legal then to buy alcohol out of drinking hours.  Some individuals set up their own establishment and illegally sold grog on the sly. There were times when we were disturbed by a knock on the bedroom window when someone mistook our place for the one next door. It was not really a problem and was handy if we had a party.  The neighbours would not complain about the noise knowing that we would dob them in for the sly grog.
 
Some of our friends shared a house near the Toorak Station.  They were planning a Christmas party. On the day of the event they realised they did not have enough drinking glasses. Karl and several of his mates were living in the house at the back of the girls place. One of the girls approached the boys to ask for the loan of some glasses. Karl answered to door and said “Yes, we will make the loan if we can come to your party”. That is how Karl and I ended up being in the same place at the same time.
 
At that time I was keeping company with a chap called Bob Watson. He was an electrical engineer but at the time of this occurrence he was in Antarctica.  He had applied for the position as a weather observer a couple of times. Each time he grew a beard in anticipation of landing the job. Each time he was unsuccessful he shaved the beard off.  Eventually he was successful and left for a 3 month term in Antarctica. So I was without a date to take with me.
 
As I said, it was approaching Christmas.  Each year the Alfred nurses held a formal dinner dance at the Dorchester, a reception place by the Yarra just near the boat sheds and Princes Bridge. With so many nurses the numbers to attend were limited, but I was on the waiting list. On the day of the “do” I finished work at 3.30 pm and received a phone call to say there had been a cancellation, that tickets for two were available if I wanted them.  I accepted, then had to find a partner to go with me. Bob was not available.  I remembered Karl, who I had met the Saturday before. I did not have contact details so caught the tram to the girl’s house to await Karl’s arrival to invite him to come with me.
 
The party when I met Karl was typical of it’s time. Dim lighting and empty Chianti bottles (they had a raffia outer covering), each with a candle in the top. During the party Karl told me his name was Rudy and he was a “commercial artist”.  He said that he was painting a mural on a wall at Research near Eltham.  In an effort to talk with him to ask him out, I had phoned a couple of businesses in Research to see if anyone knew of an artist painting a mural. No one did.
 
Karl arrived, whistling, at about 4.45 pm. I was surprised to see he was a red head. With only candle light at the party I did not realise his hair was red . If I was asked out by a boy with red hair I would decline. He was wearing white paint spattered work overalls with a stick figure of a Saint with a halo embroidered on the pocket. Not quite my image of a commercial artist. He had stretched the truth. His commercial art mural was a King Neptune advert on the side of a petrol station wall.
 
I asked Karl to the dinner dance, explaining it was a black tie affair.  He accepted.  Later I found out that he had borrowed a friend’s car and driven to Niddrie to borrow his brother Clive’s dinner suit!  He did not have a car as he had sold his because he and a mate were going to NZ for a working holiday to work on a hydro electric scheme in the south island.
 
At our flat we often had boyfriend’s visit .even after they became ex boyfriends.  We would sit on the floor in the lounge room and drink coffee, smoke cigarettes, the room lit with Chianti bottles dripping with candle wax, Marg’s record player playing The Kingston Trio and Frank Sinatra in the background. Because we six worked shift work there was pretty much always someone home. Marion and Jenny Milkins, twin sisters from Casterton who ended up as our bridesmaids also had some of their boy mates who were living in Melbourne, drop by.
 
A couple of days after our night out, Karl called in.  We were all sitting chatting, smoking and listening to records. Karl was asked what he was doing over Christmas.  He said he was going home to Tonny for a few days to see his parents.  Marg pricked up her ears as she was also from Tonny. This was a  local.  name for Tongala.  She said to Karl, What is your surname”? It transpired that they lived in the same street in Tongala and were at the primary school at the same time.  Marg moved to Melbourne to continue her schooling as a boarder at MLC, so had not seen Karl  for many years.
 
I ended up accompanying Karl to Tonny to meet his parents a few days after Christmas.  We walked into the kitchen and Karl said to his mum and dad, “I would like you to meet the girl I am going to marry!!!!   I had known him for about 2 weeks. We became engaged 3 months later and married on Sept 7th 1963 at St Mathews in Cheltenham.
 
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Claire Rudolph,
​June 2020
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