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November's theme 'A Year in My Life'

22/11/2025

 
The recent Benalla Festival theme ‘Live local, love local’ inspired our icebreaker in November.  We then read through retired journalist Richard Glover’s humorous ‘memoir’ ‘Tuesday dentist, Wednesday blood test, Thursday physio – welcome to retirement’ (The Age, October 25, 2025), which ended, you probably guessed it… ‘It’s better, of course, than the alternative.’
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Tom’s tongue-in-cheek story ‘One Moment This Year’ elaborated on the moment he learnt through experience ‘never to stand open bottles of nail polish remover anywhere near a laptop’.  Merv’s story 'The Mothership', about his ‘1994 Series Two Mitsubishi Delica’, also revealed a light comedic touch.   Barry’s 'One Moment this Year' story, humorously titled ‘The ABN that Refused to Die’, ended with a remarkable coincidence.

Carmyl reflected that writing ‘The Year That Changed Me’ on the year-long period during which she changed from Ballarat High School to Geelong High School,  led to her realising just how significant this period had been in her life.

In ‘18 months of my life 1976 – 1977’, James remembers the incredibly complex ‘uniform accoutrements’ he had to wear during his training as an Airforce pilot in New Zealand almost 50 years ago. 

Max’s story, set in a small rural town of Longwarry in ‘The 50’s’ (70 years ago!), introduced us to his friend Sprig and Sprig’s car Maud, a Ford.  The local girls apparently steered clear of Maud as ‘the only door that would open from the inside was the driver’s door’. Friend Rowdy, his widowed mother, ‘Myrt’, and local character Trapper McAlpine also featured.  

Set 60 to 75 years ago, Ray’s story focused on his early working life as a stock and station agent with the Victorian Producers Cooperative.  Coincidentally, a now 82-year old who drove cattle to the Benalla saleyards from his family farm as a teenager recently contacted Ray through our webpage! 

10 years ago, Neville shared a story in which he compared life in London when he worked there in 1968 with his impressions during a return visit in 2014.  Neville shared a selection of impressions from this story with us. 
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Members who find gardening therapeutic particularly enjoyed Robyn’s ‘How Can I Stop From …. gardening’; while in a ‘Memorable People’ story,  Jan remembered Lurg neighbour and friend, artist Hugh Sawrey, CBE 1919 to 1999.  Finally, in his story ‘Life Challenges – Writing’, Merv shared another lightly comedic, yet at the same time quite serious, story of working to overcome the challenge of dyslexia across his life’s journey. 

We spent a few minutes scrolling through stories written by some of our members this year; noting that stories often sit under several topics and can form collections. We also previewed the topics for February 2026 – ‘Triggers’ and ‘This (…)  Life’ (refer (previous post for details).

An enjoyable end of year session accompanied by home-made and boutique chocolates; Jan’s delicious shortbread and more! 
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It was also time for the annual photograph - it's missing Neville and Ray, who were chatting in the kitchen; and Heather, Joan, John and Tom, apologies on the day. 
Looking towards 2026, after 11 years ‘going it alone’, Anne Stewart and Graham Jensen have agreed to join me in convening ‘As Time Goes By’.  Thank you both!

​Bev Lee

Holiday Topics... some options for our first session in February

17/11/2025

 
‘Triggers’  (a flexible topic – and ideal for a vacation project)
Keep a notebook close by during the break in which to note any ‘triggers’ which led you to reminisce about a time in your lives.   You may have been talking to someone, watching television or a film, driving somewhere, reading a book.   Choose one to three of these - write about the memories evoked, keeping the total words to 500 – 750 words. 

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‘This (…….) Life ‘  (another flexible topic)
The Australian newspaper’s Weekend Review column considers original submissions of 450 – 500 words for their ‘This (…) Life’ story each weekend.  This topic draws upon this format! Examples ‘This (Downsizing) Life’ by an 80+ year old about planning to farewell loved home; ‘This (Number 8) Life’ about growing up as ‘Number 8’ in a family of nine children.   Also –see our ‘This (….) Life’ stories!

​As always, some gentle reminders –
  • if you find it hard to get started, or find yourself becoming bogged down, it can be helpful to re-read Tips for Writing Your 500 Words from ABC Open.   Please don't feel constrained though - our aim is to enjoy writing; to further develop our own writing style and to share our writing with a supportive audience
  • choose something which won’t make you depressed, something you feel you have dealt with, while at the same time writing and sharing a story which is important to you. 
  • if your story is getting long or seems to be losing focus, formulate a ‘key sentence’… ‘This story is about ….’ to help you to decide what stays and what goes.  (You can always ‘park’ part, even all, of a story which you’re not happy with for possible use one day).
  • it’s fine to
    • share a story on a topic if you have written about it before
    • write on more than one topic, or more than one story on one topic   
    • create a ‘members choice’ topic if you have something you’ve always wanted to write about, or a new story topic has been triggered while reflecting recently
    • share or adapt a story written previously as part of an autobiography or other story collection, tweaking the story to ‘fit’ the topic if necessary. 
    • write the topic in another genre – eg. as a standup comedy skit, children’s story, poem or short play/screen play
    • present a catch-up story you haven’t shared yet; or
    • simply pass and enjoy the stories shared by others.
  • remember to read through your story to locate and edit very long sentences which have many connecting ‘ands’.  Think about ways of breaking the sentence up.  Varying sentences to include short sentences can add impact to your writing.
  • always ​remember that reflection plays a central role in memoir writing.  
 
Bev Lee
    Our Stories
    Our Stories - by Topic

    'As Time Goes By' - Memoir Writing

    A memoir captures a meaningful slice of life—a memory, a lesson, or an experience that stands out.

    In our sessions, members come together to share short, reflective stories (up to 500 words) inspired by a new theme each month.

    As Time Goes By is not a writing skills class, nor is it about creating a full autobiography.

    ​It’s a space for those who want to record the stories that future generations might never think to ask about—a place to remember and share treasured moments in a welcoming, supportive environment with others who are also telling their stories.

    Convenors & Contact details

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    Beverley Lee
    0478 607 838
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    Graham Jensen
    ​0447 680 960
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    Anne Stewart
    ​0412 886 122

    Meeting Times

    3rd Monday 2 - 4 pm
    ​U3A Meeting Room

    Resources

    'The Good Features of Memoir Writing' - ChatGPT/OpenAI - October 2023
    2026 ATGB - Course Introduction
    ​As Time Goes By Topic List - June to August 2026
    'As Time Goes By' Topic List - February to May 2026 
    'Tips for Writing your 500 Words Story' (ABC Open)  
    Writing a story in 500 words - approaching the topics 'Failure'  and 'Heart Break'    (ABC Open)
    Memoir Review - Frameworks for Analysis
    Master list of  500 word story topics from 2015 to end of 2020
    Icebreakers - List from inception in 2021 to end 2025 (PDF)

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    ATGB  Insight Segment (PDF)

    Links

    Australian Writers' Centre

    Victorian Writers' Centre - Writers' Victoria

    ​Wheeler Centre

    The Memoir Writing Club - On Line Courses

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    '23 Words'
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    Australian Writers Centre
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    Course Description
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    'Home Libraries'
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    'I Quit!' //
    Life Matters 'Life In 500 Words'
    'Lost And Found' //
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    'Making Waves'
    'Moments That Matter'
    'My Gap Year'
    'My (Life Event)'
    'My Other Life'
    'New In Town'
    'One Moment
    Orientation To ATGB
    Right Here
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    'Stand Up Comedy'
    'The (Season) I ...'
    This ... Life
    This Year'
    'What Happened In Vegas'

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