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July - 'My (Life Event)" and 'My Gap Year'

18/7/2024

 
What games did you play when you were young that involved physical movement?
 
With this icebreaker, we soon acknowledged that the variety of games we engaged in when young were linked to our age, the physical environment in which we were nurtured and our national or cultural heritage.
 
Under the theme of a life changing event, Phil generously and courageously recounted an horrific accident in which he was involved. Bev structured this recounting to provide maximum support for both Phil and the group. Thanks Phil and Bev.
 
Carmyl followed this moving account by disclosing her special project as a nuclear physicist working with the Peter MacCallum Clinic. She measured atmospheric impacts of the nuclear explosions at Maralinga and revealed her skills in working with scientific data.
 
Phil then returned to recounting his driving career and acknowledged that his gap year was in fact an unplanned opportunity for a trip to England and Germany with his wife. The initial catalyst was a period of grief and depression, but the gap year culminated as a great holiday. They had a ‘ball’.  James bedazzled us with his gap year in Europe also. For James, losing 4 stone (25 kilos) in two weeks shearing in Wales was a stand-out feature.   James, ultimately, was shearing 200 Jacob sheep a day.
 
Ray filled a ‘gap’ for us as 1945 was the year he repeated his final year of primary school to obtain a residential scholarship in Ballarat. This was proceeded by a ‘stitching up’ from 11-year old Patricia, who clearly had a weight advantage.
 
Max entertained with a recounting of an 8/10 year olds’ memory of his dad’s return from fighting with the Australian forces. A treasure trove of memorabilia and a swathe of cigarettes  accompanied him.  Then followed an insight, from Max, into the brain of a very ambitious but probably not very skilled, aspiring sportsman. Barry’s brilliant career as a fleet salesman brightened the firmaments but was characterized by an equally distinctive crash to earth with the arrival of the fringe benefits tax (FBT).
 
David shared part one of his Gap Year experience on board a shipment of Hereford cattle bound for Santiago in Chile. The troublesome journey was a lesson for many, perhaps for David, the value of sharing one’s own truth midst attempts to hide a more embarrassing reality for his employers. 
 
Finally, from Lou, a story about his first job in Sydney after running away from his home in Canberra at the age of 15. A night sleeping with the cows just out of Goulburn, was followed by a night at the Hub, a ‘men’s only environment’ in Marrickville, with a cross dressing male serving in the kitchen and a warning to be careful. (A tale to be continued).

At our next 'As Time Goes By' Memoir Writing class on Monday 19 August at 2pm. the topic for continuing members is – ‘Lost and Found’ - ‘Write about a time you lost something you owned, treasured, or believed in - and the lengths you went to, to get it back.  Maybe it was a precious family heirloom you misplaced, an adventurous toddler who wandered out of sight, or perhaps you lost your way in an unfamiliar place.  Take us on the search to find your lost thing.  How did the loss affect you and those around you?  Were you reunited?  Was it back to   business as usual, or did your life change in ways you could never imagine?’ For new/newer class members, ‘Sense of Place’ –Write about a community to which you feel you have strong connections in some way, even if you never lived there for a time.  What has led to this feeling of connection?  How has it expressed itself/do you understand it? 

Of course, you can choose from either the ’continuing’ or ’new’ member topics, a story from our topic list or make up your own topic!

​Graham Jensen

July Icebreaker - 'Fads' during childhood

15/7/2024

 
Think about games or fads you spent hours on as a child, or any obsession you (or one of your children, other relatives) had as a child which took up hours and hours! Hula Hoops, Yo Yo's... etc. Highlight games or fads which also improved physical health, eye/hand/arm coordination in some way….
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    'As Time Goes By' - Memoir Writing

    A memoir captures a meaningful slice of life—a memory, a lesson, or an experience that stands out.

    In our sessions, members come together to share short, reflective stories (up to 500 words) inspired by a new theme each month.

    As Time Goes By is not a writing skills class, nor is it about creating a full autobiography.

    ​It’s a space for those who want to record the stories that future generations might never think to ask about—a place to remember and share treasured moments in a welcoming, supportive environment with others who are also telling their stories.

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    Beverley Lee
    0478 607 838
    Thank you to our outgoing Newsletter Correspondent - Graham Jensen ...
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    "Thank you Graham for writing such wonderful reports of our sessions over the past two years!"

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    2025 ATGB - Course Introduction
    'As Time Goes By' Topic List for 2025 
    'Tips for Writing your 500 Words Story' (ABC Open)  
    Writing a story in 500 words - approaching the topics 'Failure'  and 'Heart Break'    (ABC Open)
    Memoir Review - Frameworks for Analysis
    Master list of  500 word story topics from 2015 to end of 2020
    Icebreakers - List from inception in 2021 to end 2023 (PDF)

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    Victorian Writers' Centre - Writers' Victoria

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    Australian Writers Centre
    'Car Stories' //
    ChatGPT
    Course Description
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    'Fish Out Of Water'
    'For Better For Worse' //
    'Good Vibrations'
    'Grandparents' //
    'Heartbreak'
    'Home Libraries'
    'I Broke It'
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    'If Only'
    'I Quit!' //
    Life Matters 'Life In 500 Words'
    'Lost And Found' //
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    'My Gap Year'
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    'My Other Life'
    'New In Town'
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    Right Here
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    This ... Life
    This Year'
    'What Happened In Vegas'

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