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February - 'New in Town' and 'The (Season) I ...'

25/2/2023

 
Our February session began with an icebreaker as each member shared with another, early experiences of dance. Consequently, participants were invited to introduce their interviewees.

Bev then introduced the idea of a memoir by referencing a speaker some years ago at Benalla Library, Kevin Peoples, who recounted his experience as ‘Bob Santamaria’s salesman’, and also referenced guidelines for the class in writing and sharing personal memoirs. In general discussion, Neville recommended ‘Boswell and Johnson’s Scottish Road Trip’ on SBS.

We then moved into members’ memoirs.

Under ‘New in Town’, Heather H explored her families move to Australia, inevitable challenges and occasional cultural misunderstandings. She concluded that moving to Australia, was the ‘best idea’ the family ever had. Heather W celebrated and acknowledged that her move to Winton provided an opportunity to expand and deepen her interest in motorsports. Through resilience and persistence, she has built a life for herself now in Benalla and in both settings, has utilized her natural and enhanced leadership skills.

A variety of memoirs were explored under the theme:  ‘The Season I’.
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Bev revealed her adventures learning to drive on ice and later, discovering herself at the top of a ski slope. With no idea how to ski to the bottom, she was ‘lucky’ to survive with a few broken ribs.  Her teacher exchange in British Colombia gave her many lasting memories. Michelle, in ‘Under Attack’, shared with us a wonderfully lyrical account of the great Christmas Day water fight, twenty-five years ago. Although the years ‘may have dimmed the accuracy of the detail’, the unbridled fun of the battle stays clear in her memory.  

Neville shared a cavalcade of images and experiences associated with particular seasons and noted how the seasons have changed over the years, not least because of changing perceptions,  a result of the natural aging process. Carmyl introduced us to her friend Cat from Aceh province, the daughter of a former Colombo Plan student Carmyl and her husband Don, had supported while working in Aceh. Carmyl led us through a series of experiences as Cut learnt about the Australian way of life.  

Barry introduced us to some of the challenges of a dry Summer on an Australian farm. Trucking water, challenges of ‘bringing in the harvest’ and the danger of fires when temperatures rose above 40 degrees. Phil introduced us to scenes from an English dairy farm and shared his ‘aha’ moments, as he learnt about the life of a dairy cow. Jill took us back to the summer of 1967, relaying vivid memories of the harrowing impact on her family and community of both severe drought and the lead up to the hanging of Ronald Ryan.  Ray shared how the encouragement of patrons of the country hotel in which he boarded as a young single man in 1958 led him to become a competitive bowler, and described a final in which he participated, winning by match light.  Finally, Graham introduced us to his personal paradigm shift in understanding seasons. He shared information on the six seasons identified by the Gariwerd peoples and a five-schema suggested by the CSIRO.

Topics for our session on Monday 20 March at 2pm -
‘Precious Objects’   Tell us about a memento, an object (or a group of objects) from a time in your past that has been important to you, and why.  You always carry it with you whenever you move and find it very hard to let go of.  Maybe it has a story behind it, or it's been a powerful presence i­­­­­­n your life.  Bring along the item if you can, or at the very least, a photo!
Alternative topic - ‘Failure’ ‘Write about a failure you’ve experienced – from the commonplace to the catastrophic – in 500 words’.

Graham Jensen

February - 'The Season I ....' and 'New in Town'

20/2/2023

 
Icebreaker - Going to local dances when we were teenagers can be considered cultural rituals which supported our transition to adulthood.  Talk to your neighbour about your memories of such dances - where were they held?  by?  music? memories - 'highs' and 'lows' .... 

'Memoir'... 'a slice of life'

A reminder of 'memoir' as 'a slice of life' rather than an autobiography, of our stories as 'slices of life'... a good example....
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Some further reading:
  • Sian Prior writes about her latest memoir 'Another Round - On Writing a Second Memoir' 
  • ​2023_2_sianprior.com-another_round_on_writing_a_second_memoir.pdf ....
  • A useful article on memoir writing which distinguishes between autobiography and memoir - https://writers.com/how-to-write-a-memoir​

Some features of 'As Time Goes By'

  • The use of monthly topics – ‘memoir fragments’ .  We have developed a rich library of topics over the past nine years, largely from ABC Open’s ‘500 words’ project, but increasingly from a diverse range of sources, including ourselves!
  • Poetry as Memoir - it is fine to submit a poem, rather than prose
  • The course is not a 'skills focussed' course, but a course which encourages us to developing our own voice by writing regularly and encouraging & supporting others
  • Word Limits – we aim towards the target of 500 words, but there are no penalties for not meeting this... under or over!
  • Writing can be a cathartic process – it is important to look after our  personal well being.  In terms of sharing stories in class, our guideline is to avoid sharing stories which still cause considerable emotional pain.  Even when we think we'll be fine, we can still find it difficult to read some stories aloud - something we all understand.  This doesn't mean not writing about such issues, but being thoughtful about whether to read them out in class.
  • Confidentiality issues can arise when writing about real people (sometimes doing so negatively) - the guideline is to handle privacy issues with care, both when telling stories and with sharing news of stories told in class with others.  (Chatham House Rules?).
  • Handling gender and other sensitive or ethical issues in our stories - sometimes the way we write will reflect our recollections of the time, however we do try to apply gender neutral guidelines.  It is rarely an issue... but can come up!
  • It may well be that while we are working towards finding truth in memoir, other people have different recollections of the same events. 
  • We do at times have discussions in class geared to develop our understanding of the nature of memoir and memoir writing, and have included a 'memoir review' topic on our list. 
  • Publishing our stories - over the years we have built up a collection of stories on the website, with the 'authors' stories joined by 'stories by topic' during Co-vid, when people couldn't come to class but enjoyed reading the monthly stories on-line. 
  • Sending in stories before class allows them to be screened on the wall, which helps us all in hearing and focusing on the stories.  Do this if you can, however it is not compulsory. 
  • Editing suggestions – a gentle approach to suggesting edits before publishing on the website - occasional changes to help with readability, and the odd elimination of an unnecessary swear word or two for publication posterity!

Compiling memoir based stories for our families - some new developments

‘My Life in a Book’ - https://mylifeinabook.com/   Standard price $99 includes a one year subscription to enable you to write your story through the My Life In a Book platform together with a premium keepsake book in lively colours in A5 format that will contain the stories and images you share.  Additional copies $30.  Every Monday you will receive one question prompt to help you to decide what to write about – you will write your story and add an image for each question – you also have the option to email your story to your loved ones after you’ve written it. 

‘Storyworth.com’ storyworth.com     $99 for subscription and one black and white interior book

‘The Life Writer’ – https://thelifewriter.com  offers a format which may work well with our stories, having categories which could work… it is $95 (?US) and it may only be for one copy.  Worth finding out more about!

‘Memlife.com’ An online tool – https://www.memlife.com     I’m trialling it; it looks very user friendly!  It’s free – at least for a basic purpose.  It doesn’t have prompts, but is easy to use when you remember to use it!

Suggestion - we monitor what is happening, take out test subscriptions if they seem to be useful, .... we generally 'watch this space!'

Sharing this month's topics - 'The Season I ...' and 'New in Town'

The 500 word topic for February, ‘The (season) I’ , was inspired by Jenny’s story ‘The Summer I Saved a Life’ and Michelle’s 2022 member’s choice topic ‘Summer 1977’.  ‘Develop a title and share a story on a memorable season in your life using the season you remember it happening in as a backdrop or prompt.’ 

Alternatives for new class members (or members who haven't written on these topics)”
·   ‘New in Town’  ‘Have you ever been the new person in town, or did someone else's arrival have a profound impact on you?  Share your story in 500 words’ or  
·  ‘The Year that Made Me’  ‘Write about a year which made a particular difference in your life’s journey.   Over to you!’ or
·  'I Was There'   'Have you experienced a significant news, historical or cultural event first-hand? Share your personal piece of history in 500 words’.

Topic List for 2023

It's ready!   Note the last entry contains ideas for times when you have writer's block!
As Time Goes By - Topic List 2023 - Download PDF

Next month's topics


‘Precious Objects’
(Suggestion by Graham Jensen for 2023)

Tell us about a memento, an object (or a group of objects) from a time in your past that has been important to you, and why.  You always carry it with you whenever you move and find it very hard to let go of.
 
Maybe it has a story behind it, or it's been a powerful presence i­­­­­­n your life.  Bring along the item if you can, or at the very least, a photo!

Sample Life Matters 2022– El’s silver ladle

Alternative topic - ‘Failure’

Although 'As Time Goes By'  is not a ‘skills focussed course’,  feel free to follow the guidelines relating to and share your story on 'Failure' at our next session - ‘Write about a failure you’ve experienced – from the commonplace to the catastrophic – in 500 words’.

Resources

'As Time Goes By' Course Information Sheet 2023
How to Write Your Story in 500 Words (ABC Open)
ABC Open Planning Sheet – 500 words - Topic Failure (as above)
(At the other extreme - a very personal Failure story https://www.abc.net.au/radionational/programs/lifematters/abc-open-500-words3b-failure/5125288)


Bev Lee
February 2023

Welcome to 'As Time Goes By' for 2023!

19/2/2023

 
A special welcome to new members. If you would like to contribute a 500-word story (topics below) in February, that would be excellent, however don't feel you have to.  It's fine to 'pass' until you feel comfortable. Feel free to use and develop your own writing style, to use your own voice.  While 500 words is suggested as a word limit, there is no penalty if you go over this!   
 
if you haven't written for a while and are finding it hard to get started - I've attached two documents which might be helpful. There's a Tip Sheet on writing your 500 words story published for the ABC Open program which provided the structure for our course when we first started.  There's also a guide for planning a story using the topic 'Failure' -‘Write about a failure you’ve experienced – from the commonplace to the catastrophic – in 500 words’. While these sheets may be helpful, it is not compulsory to follow them.
 
Topic Details for Monday 20th February 

The 500 word topic for February, ‘The (season) I’ , was inspired by Jenny’s story ‘The Summer I Saved a Life’ and Michelle’s 2022 member’s choice topic ‘Summer 1977’.  ‘Develop a title and share a story on a memorable season in your life using the season you remember it happening in as a backdrop or prompt.’ 

Alternative topics for new class members (or members who haven't written on these topics)”
·   ‘New in Town’  ‘Have you ever been the new person in town, or did someone else's arrival have a profound impact on you?  Share your story in 500 words’ or  
·  ‘The Year that Made Me’  ‘Write about a year which made a particular difference in your life’s journey.   Over to you!’ or
·  'I Was There'   'Have you experienced a significant news, historical or cultural event first-hand? Share your personal piece of history in 500 words’.

The topic list for 2023 will be handed out on Monday.  Thank you to class members who sent in ideas for new topics.   
 
I'm looking forward to seeing you on Monday at 2pm.  Please call me if you have any questions or would like to run something past me.
 
 
Beverley Lee
0478 607 838
    Our Stories
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    'As Time Goes By' - Memoir Writing

    A memoir captures a meaningful slice of life—a memory, a lesson, or an experience that stands out.

    In our sessions, members come together to share short, reflective stories (up to 500 words) inspired by a new theme each month.

    As Time Goes By is not a writing skills class, nor is it about creating a full autobiography.

    ​It’s a space for those who want to record the stories that future generations might never think to ask about—a place to remember and share treasured moments in a welcoming, supportive environment with others who are also telling their stories.

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    Beverley Lee
    0478 607 838
    Thank you to our outgoing Newsletter Correspondent - Graham Jensen ...
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    "Thank you Graham for writing such wonderful reports of our sessions over the past two years!"

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    2025 ATGB - Course Introduction
    'As Time Goes By' Topic List for 2025 
    'Tips for Writing your 500 Words Story' (ABC Open)  
    Writing a story in 500 words - approaching the topics 'Failure'  and 'Heart Break'    (ABC Open)
    Memoir Review - Frameworks for Analysis
    Master list of  500 word story topics from 2015 to end of 2020
    Icebreakers - List from inception in 2021 to end 2023 (PDF)

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